how to set the example for safe driving

Teens are more likely to follow your example than your advice! Your teen has been watching your behavior in the car since they were in a car seat. If they see you texting while driving, skipping the seatbelt, or driving distracted, it becomes harder to convince them that these behaviors are dangerous.

Navigating teen driving together is a process. It's about teaching your teen not just the mechanics of driving, but also the importance of safe driving. 

The more often you model safe driving habits, the more likely your teen will adopt them as they learn to drive. We know that old habits are hard to break, but it's worth it to try to keep your teen safe! Just challenge yourself to try these tips and take time to get used to your new, safer driving style.

Learn more about each of these safe driving behaviors that you can start modeling today and why it's important:

• Put the phone away
• Follow the rules
• Wear your seatbelt
• Control your road rage
• Avoid impaired driving
• Stay focused

put the phone away

One of the most important lessons your teen will learn is how to avoid distractions. A great place to start is by putting your phone away while driving. Be sure to set your playlist and maps before you leave and keep the phone out of reach throughout the entire drive.

You're setting the example that driving deserves your full attention, and you're showing your teen that their safety is more important than a text message.

follow the rules

These might seem like basic rules, but they’re essential for keeping everyone safe on the road. Always use your turn signals, stop at stop signs, and obey all posted traffic signs.

Speeding increases the likelihood of accidents and can make an emergency more dangerous. Stick to the posted speed limits and be mindful of conditions like weather or traffic that may require you to adjust your speed. By sticking to the speed limits, you’re teaching your teen that patience and careful driving are essential for staying safe on the road. 

Showing your teen that these safety rules matter can help them understand that following the rules isn’t just about avoiding tickets—it’s about protecting themselves and others on the road.  

wear your seatbelt

Always wear your seatbelt, even when you’re a passenger. While this may seem like a simple tip, it's worth repeating. If your teen sees you buckle up every time, they’re more likely to do the same. Consistency is key, and it’s a simple habit that can save lives. 

control your road rage

Teen drivers are still learning how to manage stress and emotions behind the wheel. Show them how to handle frustrating situations by keeping road rage in check.

If another driver cuts you off or makes a mistake, avoid reacting with anger or frustration. Instead, focus on staying calm and keeping a safe distance. Avoid bad driving habits like tailgating, cutting people off or ignoring road signs.

By demonstrating this behavior, you’re teaching your teen to remain calm and level-headed, even in stressful driving situations.  

avoid impaired driving

This is one of the most important lessons to model for your teen. Don’t drive under the influence of alcohol, drugs, or even when drowsy. Impaired driving is a serious danger to people’s lives and should never be normalized. When your teen sees you make responsible choices, they will understand the importance of keeping both their body and mind alert while behind the wheel. 

stay focused on the road

It’s easy to get distracted by eating, applying makeup, or fixing the radio when driving, but these actions take your attention away from the road. If you make it a habit to stay focused on driving, your teen will be more likely to follow your lead. 

By modeling these safe driving behaviors, you’re showing your teen that driving is a responsibility, not a privilege. It’s about navigating the road safely, together. So, as you help your teen prepare for the open road, remember they’re watching and learning from you every step of the way. 

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Together you and your teen can make sure they’re prepared to be safe in any circumstance as they drive on the road!